The Education
behind the life.
SLU is a community of women focused on confidence, etiquette, self development and lifestyle refinement to meet successful & generous partners.
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A more intentional, elegant you is possible.
Today's Curation
Marcus, 36
Atlanta, GA
Building something lasting. Family-minded and done with games.
- Identity verified
- Background reviewed
- Eligibility confirmed
7
Schools
26
Weeks
Soft Life
Memberships
Choose Your Path
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Soft Life
All Access
Go deeper. A more intentional life awaits you.
Apply to Join the Waitlist$49.99/month
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Access to All 7 Schools
- Exclusive Content
- Live Workshops
- Supportive Community
Tools Needed for the Soft Life
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Choose Your Level
Begin where you are. Every level builds on the one before it, up to the application-only Privé experience.
Soft Life Entry Level
$9.99/ mo
Monthly billing only
Your starting level
- First Welcome lesson only
- Daily Soft Life tips
- Private Discord
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Crest handkerchief
Soft Life All Access
$49.99/ mo
or $479.90/year
Includes Entry Level, plus
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Full Soft Life U curriculum
- Weekly webinars
- Weekly private events
- Selected live events
- Handkerchief and T-shirt
Soft Life VIP
$99.99/ mo
or $899.88/year
Includes All Access, plus
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Private group chats
- Limited matches
- Exclusive live events
- Handkerchief, T-shirt and sweatshirt
Soft Life Privé
By application
$3,000 enrollment + $499.99/month
Includes every previous level, plus
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Skips the curriculum
- Immediate matchmaking after onboarding and vetting
- 1-on-1 support
- All merch, including the hat
The Soft Life, Everywhere
Travel with confidence.
Included with every membership
SLU Rewards
Real member savings on dining, hotels, travel, shopping, beauty and wellness, entertainment and more — phone-first, searchable and easy to redeem. No separate fee and no separate signup.
Learn More- Dining
- Hotels & Travel
- Shopping
- Beauty & Wellness
- Fitness
- Family & Kids
Offers, availability and savings vary by location and merchant participation.
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The Soft Life, in Her Words
A glimpse of the confidence, polish and ease our community is built on. Press play when you're ready — sound stays off until you turn it on.
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The Seven Schools
An elevated education in personal refinement, social intelligence, relationship discernment and intentional living.
Inside the Curriculum
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SLU-PD-101The Confidence BlueprintBuild unshakable self-worth and executive presence.
SLU-IMG-101The Signature SelfDefine your style, grooming and personal brand.Schools
Courses
Modules
Lessons
Hours
Admission Requirement • Women 18+
Admissions begins
with your profile.
Complete a detailed profile so our admissions team can understand your goals, lifestyle, standards and readiness.
- About You
- Goals
- Lifestyle
- Standards
- Readiness
The Outcome
A Life of Intentional
Freedom & Alignment
We don't just teach success. We prepare you to live it—with elegance, ease and purpose.
After Conferral
Matchmaking and introductions begin.
After conferral, graduates may enter a private, members-only experience with curated introductions and private events with vetted, relationship-minded gentlemen.
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Vetted • Approved • Verified
Marcus, 36
Atlanta, GA
Relationship-minded. Identity verified by the Registry.
The Gentlemen's Registry
A separate application. Identity and eligibility vetting. A considered standard.
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Wear the Standard.
The skills behind the soft life.
